In the midst of life's challenges, the stories of Anita and Linda intertwine, forming a beautiful narrative of courage, friendship, and unwavering faith. Their journeys through breast cancer and their commitment to Red Mountain Grace have not only strengthened their bond but also touched the lives of others in profound ways.
Linda's story began in 2015 when a routine mammogram unveiled her breast cancer diagnosis. Ironically, she had postponed her annual exam by nine months, feeling guilty about the delay. Little did she know that this delay was providential, as it allowed her to discover the cancer early. With her faith and a stage 1 tumor confined to a small area, she was spared from chemotherapy and radiation. However, given her family history, Linda chose to undergo a bilateral mastectomy.
In the same year, Linda's husband faced a life-threatening accident while quail hunting. God spared both of their lives during that eventful year. Amidst these trials, Linda's biggest takeaway was that the Lord never wastes anything. She witnessed the support and community of the Body of Christ, which is the difference that sets Red Mountain Grace (RMG) apart from other hospitality housing in Birmingham.
“When my husband was flown to the trauma center at UAB to undergo surgery for his wounds, I had a 90-minute drive to the hospital from the place of the accident. By the time I arrived, the waiting room was filled with friends from church. They prayed with and for us and haven't stopped since! Life is fragile and unpredictable but the Lord provides our every need - even when we don't know what those needs are. For us, we have learned that life is a gift and the Lord is in every detail. He uses our stories to minister to others, but He also uses our stories to remind us daily of His faithfulness. He has shown us how to trust Him for things we wouldn't typically ask for.“
Anita's breast cancer story is unique. Diagnosed in 2021, her cancer was elusive, growing linearly and resembling regular breast tissue, making it challenging to spot even through a mammogram. Typically, such cancers are only discovered at stage 3, but Anita's was miraculously detected at stage 1, a gift she attributes to God's hands.
“I learned very quickly that there are lessons in the waiting. My breast cancer journey built trust when I was scared, it built courage when I was scared, and it deepened my walk with the Lord to a place I had never been before. And I never want to go back. It was truly, as they say, a gift in a black box.”
Anita and Linda met years ago, becoming fast friends, joined by the friendships of their daughters. Linda helped Anita navigate her breast cancer journey. Anita used many of Linda’s same doctors. Linda even accompanied Anita to many appointments, demonstrating the power of compassionate support during challenging times.
Years after their friendship was birthed and cancer diagnoses beat, they came to learn about a local nonprofit seeking to support families like theirs, with the added bonus of community.